My nose has swelled so much, I worried about frightening children. I couldn't kiss my wife too - Man recounts after nose surgery

For six long years, 68-year-old Gerard McAliece watched helplessly as his nose grew uncontrollably larger, to the point where he could no longer kiss his wife, Carol. The retired IBM employee from Kilmacolm, Scotland, said the gradual swelling began around six years ago, but he initially tried to ignore it. It just kept growing and growing, Gerard recalled. People began to stare, and some would turn away, but I thought, this is me take me as I am. What started as a minor change soon became a major burden. His nose swelled to such an extent that it hung over his mouth, making him increasingly self-conscious. The younger kids were the worst, he said. They have no filter. I used to worry about what my grandchildrens friends would think at their birthday parties. Despite the obvious distress, Gerard said his concerns were initially dismissed when he sought medical help. They asked if I could breathe and I said yes. That was the end of it, he explained. I didnt want to push it because I thought there were more important things going on.  It wasnt until Carol insisted they pursue private treatment that Gerard received a proper diagnosis. Specialists at Glasgows Ever Clinic identified his condition as Rhinophyma a severe disorder in which the sebaceous glands and connective tissue of the nose enlarge, leading to pronounced swelling, redness, and lumpiness. According to the British Association of Dermatologists, the condition often develops in people with rosacea, though the exact cause remains unclear. By then, the tissue on Gerards nose had become one of the worst cases the clinic had ever seen. Surgeons performed a complex four-hour procedure to remove the excess growth and restore his facial structure. They said it was the biggest job they had ever tackled, Gerard said. It was a real challenge, but they managed to complete it in one session. Although the anaesthetic began to wear off toward the end of the operation, Gerard said the results were absolutely worth it.  Now fully recovered, he describes the transformation as life-changing. Its totally turned my life around, he said proudly. Carol says Im back to being the man I used to be. Im going out again, meeting people, having a pint, and enjoying meals things we hadnt done in years. Offering words of encouragement to others facing similar struggles, Gerard added: If theres anyone out there in the position I was in, my advice would be dont wait. Just do it.The post My nose has swelled so much, I worried about frightening children. I couldn't kiss my wife too - Man recounts after nose surgery appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.