A man with no money, plan has no business chasing love. Don’t drag a woman into your chaos - Nigerian pastor's wife says

The wife of an Akwa Ibom pastor, Emem Isong, has stated that a man with no money, plan, discipline has no business chasing women.   The preacher, who stated this in a Facebook post on Thursday, May 21, 2026, said it's ugly watching a woman lose herself making sacrifices for a man that has nothing to offer her but stress and financial burden.   According to Mrs Isong, men should be able to bring value, peace and mutual progress to the table.  However, a man who has nothing to offer should stay alone with their own lack and leave women alone.   While love is important, she pointed out that love without stability leads to pain.  Addressing women, she advised them to wake up if they are laying next to men that can't pull out money from the ATM. You ever seen a woman lose herself trying to love a man who had nothing to give her but stress? I have. And its ugly. She starts off softsupportive, believing in him. But over time, the bills pile up, her smile fades, and her eyes get tired. Tired of carrying it all, she wrote in a Facebook post on Thursday, May 21, 2026. "A man with no money, no plan, no discipline has no damn business chasing love.  "Thats not romanticits reckless. What youre really doing is looking for a woman to sponsor your struggle while you figure it out. "Thats not being a man. Thats being a burden. "If you cant provide peace, protection, or progressleave her alone.  "Dont drag her into your chaos because youre scared to be alone with your own lack. "You think love will fix it? Nah. Love without stability just turns into pin. And shell remember you as the lesson, not the blessing. "If you're laying next to a man that can't pull out money of the ATM, wake the hell up. "So before you pull up talking about love, ask yourself: Am I bringing peaceor just more problems?  If your fathers didnt teach you, I am! No Dusty Bums Allowed! YADAAwakening #family #wife #standards #peace #lifestyle.     The post A man with no money, plan has no business chasing love. Dont drag a woman into your chaos - Nigerian pastor's wife says appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.