Struggle dries up a man's emotional sauce - Nigerian man says as he addresses women dating or married to men who came out of poverty

A Nigerian businessman, James Omeiza, has addressed women who are dating or married to unromantic men whose mindset is shaped by their poor background.  In a Facebook post on Sunday, he said many men who came out of poverty have difficulty expressing love or giving flowers and other traditional romantic gestures hence it's important to approach the situation with understanding, empathy and willingness to help the person evolve.  He wrote A very important announcement to all the Omalichas and Olomoges in the building, gather here, make I yarn you one thing wey fit save your heart from premium tears, he wrote.  Let me gist you about the kind of man you might be falling head over heels for, because love no dey look face, but e dey enter trap sometimes. Men who crawled out of the trenches of poverty, who fought battles just to break the cycle, dont always come out holding flowers and whispering sweet romantic songs to you. Celine Dion or West life love songs no dey move them. Let this be known. Sis, before you report him to the marriage committee, his pastor or start complaining that money isnt everything and you want more romance, remember: struggle doesnt just drain a man's pockets, it can dry up the emotional sauce too. He may not write love poems, but his hustle is his love language. Learn to see the romance in his sacrifice. Love him for who he is, and help him evolve, not resent.    The post Struggle dries up a man's emotional sauce - Nigerian man says as he addresses women dating or married to men who came out of poverty appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.